It's funny you say that, Mish. The only sex-type dreams I ever have involve H and they are few and far between.
But I have had many dreams about other men (including a very handsome soap star for some reason and a former H.S. boyfriend) where the theme of the dream is LOVE, not sex. Like, the guy tells me how much he loves me and wants to be with me, or he holds me and kisses me and gets close to me, but not in a sexual way. Those dreams fill me with more longing than the sex-type dreams...