Another newcomer - already finding help

[JKL2009]

No way I can gather intel on this. I think first suggestion is my only option. Maybe I could combine the too, since I can't rule it out.

No, at the end of the day this is not really normal. She didn't spend nights out until recently. I think that is a good point, and I don't think the down side to putting my foot down a bit will really hurt here. Of course, she could just go out for a "night out" and come home, and still carry on an A. But there needs to be a line drawn somewhere.