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Do you have the strength to move forward?


Sometimes I feel like I do but not lately.

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It is time to cut all communications with her unless you have to discuss your daughter.


Yeah, I was kind of considering this today.

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The four affairs, abandonment, missing daughters events, telling both of you lies, etc will not look good to a judge.


Ok, the abandonment, missing daughter's events, and lies I can prove but the 4 affairs I cannot necessarily prove--well maybe with the emails but she can claim she lied w/ those as well.

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Perhaps this will force her to change but with her past behaviour I wonder


I doubt it. Remember she's in love w/ OM and she's done all this stuff to hide it so why would she change now?

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her reconciliation with her first husband comment is strange and I wonder what she means by that...he abused and beat her who knows how many times and now they are friends?


I thought so as well. They talk on the phone now and he is a friend of hers on facebook--so strange considering the fact that my SS is 19 and they don't have to talk anymore at all.

I didn't want it to get to this point but I really don't see any other options at this point.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!