Nicole - you had a big day yesterday! I see some encouraging signs in your post from H but you will have to take it slow of course. Not sure what the motive is for asking you about base housing, not closing any doors... maybe he's confused? Obviously still attracted to you which is good! :-) I think all of that conversation will take some time to process... You did a good job communicating with him, and not falling apart until after he left. Friends mean well, but maybe moving home isn't the best thing for the M. Only you can make that decision. Hang in there!