My W called me today and talked about what we had going on this upcoming week and weekend. I had mentioned I had plans for Sat. afternoon and night out with my friends, and hoped we would do something with S Sunday. She asked about her going out after work Friday with friends, probably staying overnight with a girlfriend from work.
So here is the question - I suspect, but don't know, that she in fact is going to stay with OM. Do I put my foot down and say I don't think she should be staying over at all with anyone? Do I act indifferent and say I want her to have a social life and she can choose what she wants to do? I don't want to empower the EA/PA, but also don't want to get walked over. It is very possible she is just hanging with her friend as well.
Last edited by JKL2009; 05/20/0906:49 PM.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
