At one point (after I'd become a bit of an oldtimer on these boards) I changed my identity for undisclosed reasons and wanted a nom de plume that was androgynous and unrevealing. So, it is not entirely by accident that people mistake my gender... So, there is the androgynous name, my direct manner, my non-cheerleading non-hand-holding approach (plenty of folks to do that around here), and my general openness combined with a charming lack of tact that probably all combine to make it seem like I'm a dirty old man rather than a sweet, but analytical, girly girl mom of D2.5.
Puppy, you thought so too *recently* or a long time ago?
And, plus too Kerry, besides the gender/age mismatch with your mental image, I quit smoking a long time ago, though I do go topless around the house a lot.
And, plus too Kerry, besides the gender/age mismatch with your mental image, I quit smoking a long time ago, though I do go topless around the house a lot.
Too funny! I now can quit imagining you have a coat of grey hair growing on your back.
If I seem angry, it's more like frustration because I do wonder why so many are simply unwilling to play the hand they were dealt. Especially one they dealt to themselves.
What's up with that? Why say that you want the kind of life you were denied? Denied by whom?
OT~ that statement about complimenting your spouse in front of someone.. THAT IS SO TRUE!! Actually my H did it on Saturday in front of my younger sisters friend . They were talking about finding someone that you want to marry and he said "i hope you are as lucky as I am to find someone that is wonderful".. Have to tell you that stuck with me for days....
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
I know you are taking a break, a well deserved one I might add. However, I did want you to know that I am thinking of you and hoping that you both can make sense of this situation. Go get a cigar and sit by the pool.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
