It seems to be working.... sometimes #2

[StrgMarvelousWmn]

So then (based on some legal advice)I told him I expected him to sign a post nuptial agreement then that would entail no contact, if there is I will file, I will put her name in it so she will be served at work (thus getting her fired and dragging all her lovers & the poor wives into the mess) and i will get everything... house, retirements x(3), boat, cars, & kids. I told him he was free to put anything he wanted in the contract too. But I told him he needed to be sure about it... and he said "No problem, is it going to cost a lot to draw up those papers?"

Always the money man! So, I don't know if that's the right thing to do, but I told him it will help me feel safer.... and if I have that financial security .... I will feel safer to be able to stand on my own.

I did research it and you really need a lawyer to draw it up for most judges to look at it seriously.

HHHHMMMMM I wonder where that BRILLIANT idea came from??????

I believe, in my heart that things are going t obe okay. He DOES love you and he KNOWS he is where he belongs and where God wants him to be.

Now, other than getting that post-nup, LET IT GO!! It does no good to rehash it, either to him or in your mind. It is just crazy-making at its finest. I strongly believe that you finding the info was orchestrated by God--it was time for all the secrets to be out in the open. To walk away now lets the enemy win. God is giving you the opportunity to really move forward in a new honest relationship. Take it and enjoy it.

Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~
SMW