Dang! You have come so far. I feel the same as you. I do get hurt sometimes when I hear things but its more 'wtf was wrong with our life?' I definately don't miss the crap and the person he is.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!