Well I texted him last night that I was going to call an attorney and make an appointment.
We spent the evening together with the kids, Dan's idea. He wanted to meet us at karate and take Nathan out to celebrate earning his next karate belt level last week. So we went to Outback and then to Dairy Queen, and I thought we were going to my house after that to work on our schedule. (Nathan's counselor said we MUST get a schedule in place so the kids can have some expectations of what their lives are going to be like.)
Anyway as they were eating ice cream Dan said he had to go meet a guy in a neighboring town (30 miles) to pick up semen....bull semen for AI work on the cows this week.
So I lost the opportunity to talk to him without the kids around. Then to add to the joy Sydney started projectile vomiting on the way home. And she didn't even eat her ice cream at Dairy Queen (should have known she was sick! ).
So I spent the evening until 2:30 am holding the bucket for her while she tried to sleep and kept waking up.
Anyway point is we weren't gong to have time to talk alone so I texted him. I just told him that I knew when it came to cows and houses, if he thought the project was worth it he would give it his all and make it great. That the same could be said for our marriage, if it was important to him he would work with me to take the broken marriage and make something better out of it. But since he had not shown any desire to do so, I was going to call my atty and make the appointment to start the process.
Well I sent the message at 10:30 in two parts, but the second part (about the atty) didn't transmit until 2:00 am. He texted back at 2:03 that "his phone was 'jacked up' and he wasn't able to see the message until then, sorry". But that was the only response.
This afternoon he called to see if Sydney was okay. He said he had gotten my messages but hadn't had a chance to respond since he was at work and I was at work...
Oh well. Still calling the attorney. It's time to move on with life.
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