Your friend is just trying to help. The point of coming to this board is to get multiple perspectives. As you have been told before. YOU r the ONLY EXPERT on your Situation. You know your WAW better then anyone. All we can do is offer advice and comments based on your posts. From what you have written I see that your W is CONFUSED. Which means she will be going back and forth on the same emotional rollercoaster that you're on. This is not necessarily a bad thing. If she wasn't confused you might be Divorced already. I'm guessing that's not what you want. So keep on doing what your doing and keep on working on YOU. That is why everyone on here talks about working on OURSELVES because we all know the WAS's have NO idea what they want. YOU can't worry about that or YOU will just go crazy reacting to every little thing or gesture they make.
