WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 9

[confusedinpa]

Now I'm even more confused. I just talked to WAW friend. She thinks that I could just be her shoulder to cry on to get through this point for her.

She suggested I say "I don't mean to be insensitive but this hurts me too. I want us to get back together and when things like this happens it gives me hope. If there really isn't any hope, it just adds to my hurt."

Then again, at the same time, my WAW friends says that she would never for a million years ever call her ex-husbands (this is the second time around she is a WAW) as a shoulder to cry on. So she is confused about that as well.

My WAW friend will be at baseball tonite, so she said she would try and keep an eye out as to what my wife was feeling/acting.

Anybody else have this type of behavior by a WAW?