I have found the DB coaches really helpful. When I was obsessing, and when I wasn't. I have been able to take some valuable tips from the woman I've talked to. It got to the point that the focus was me and my D's (not H or M) and how to help one D in particular. If you've got the resources, what the heck.
Good luck with the job hunt. I always liked shift work though....I've been on days for quite awhile.
