VH, I agree with what you said in my other thread about "only controlling myself".
Snodderly have you stopped posting to me????
Whats new with me????????? I will tell you. I have lost weight! (not at my idea weight yet, but working on it) I am tanning, getting ready for summer! I got my hair done. and I am working on some things around the house. Yep, I am being very productive!
Grace_O, there are alot of things I did to do around the house, IF I intend on keeping it and I am trying. If I stay here, I need to paint, plant some flowers and finish building the back deck that my xh left unfinished when the "SHIP" picked him up.lol I am on the hunt right now for a FIRST SHIFT job, so I will only have to work one or two days on second shift.
I wanted to ask, whoever wants to answer, would a DB coach help me in anyway right now. I am already divorced but I have decided to stand for my marriage and family until I feel otherwise and GOD lets me know. I want to do everything I can do right, just in case there is hope for our family in the future. Any other suggestions on what I need to be doing, other than GAL and working on the above?
I know that the DB coach has helped others immensely so maybe it cant hurt to try. I believe they would tell you the same thing everyone else has told you - leave him alone and stop obsessing.
I have found the DB coaches really helpful. When I was obsessing, and when I wasn't. I have been able to take some valuable tips from the woman I've talked to. It got to the point that the focus was me and my D's (not H or M) and how to help one D in particular. If you've got the resources, what the heck.
Good luck with the job hunt. I always liked shift work though....I've been on days for quite awhile.
Kerry I have left him alone for awhile now. Do you need to catch up on my threads?????lol BUT I DO still think ALOT about him. I cant help it, its soooo hard not to. I dont get to talk to him at all.
I can go days and do sooo good. Stay in a good mood and all, then bam one day out of the blue, its like its the first day of this mess. Does anyone else do this or have done this?
I do this all the time...out of nowhere the memories come back and hit me right in the face....when that happens I ask the Lord for his help in prayer and peace is upon me once again....by his grace and mercy does that happen.....I thank God everyday for that......
