another update, haven't been on the site for quite some time.
My wife asked me out, she wants to go on a real date with me next week. I told her I had a place already in mind, funny thing was we both named the same restaurant at the same time, somewhere we both haven't been yet - that was kind of a funny moment, both smiled a bit because of it.
Things are going good, I'm not reading more into it than just a date but she does bring up the relationship talk more & more.
As for the date, I will just relax & have fun.
Things are doing well at my end, work is super busy, kids are both in soccer so a few evenings each week are already spoken for, the weekends are always busy: always stuff to do with the kids and my wife has been asking if she can participate more when they're with me and I agree, the kids enjoy it when we do things as a family and my wife has been keeping her temper tantrums to a minimum lately so I don't mind her company either. Plus when she's over, she helps me out at home a bit by doing stuff with me as I don't need her to do it for me, I'm perfectly capable as is and don't need a servant (ie. helping me with folding & putting away laundry, cleaning the kid's rooms, making supper, etc.)
Nothing more to say than it's been good & fun lately with her, not too much drama and she sure calls & texts alot more lately as well.
I haven't brought up her PA or EA, that's not to say that I won't because I do want honesty in this area. If something happened and I believe it did, I want her to own up to it. I won't brand her as a cheater for life, I won't label her as someone bad but like I said, honesty is important with me as well as communication & being open.
I hope everyone out there is doing well, keep your chin up, focus on improving yourself and having a great life, whichever way things go in your life, they will happen in a positive way if you are living a positive, happy life and take care of yourself.
