See my thread in piecing starting with yesteredays post about what can happen if they don't sort it out before the reconcillationn.. you need to listen with your ears not your heart ... you have waited so long for this.... now it's here....
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too