Well now that I posted that I'm not sure what actions to take...:).
I've been trying to think what her reactions might be if I say sent her a nice card and I really have no idea. If I had to guess it would be either no acknowledgment or a thank you...I don't think I'd get I told you it's over so don't do that anymore, but I'm not sure...

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."