Yes. A) Men are bigger liars (but of course the LBS believes everything she hears), B) Men want what they can't have (which is why they come back after the LBW has already given up...unless she's at least given the perception that she has), C) Men are not above telling their wives what they want to hear in order to keep two women on the hook at the same time. D) Men don't arrive at the decision to leave after years of feeling miserable...they do it when they are interested in some other woman. If the interest in the wife is piqued...there aren't a lot of long held anger issues holding him back. Of course, these are generalizations. P.S. Piquing the WAHs interest does not involve having sex with him in new and interesting ways...it's not being available and needy anymore. Guys want a challenge...if you are going to act like a slut, they'll take the sex, but that's it.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
