Setting Boundaries for MLC Alien H

[In Limbo]

Doing really well today. I feel I'm moving into a different stage. The pain is still there, but I'm gaining a perspective I haven't had before. It's difficult to explain. I'm still struggling with detaching, but don't feel as hopeless. I hope this change continues.

I'm taking the boys to visit their grandparents next week and will leave them there. I'm anxious to get to visit a bit with my parents and also to visit with my grandparents who are both not doing so well. So next week I'll have all week to GAL and spend just on me. H and I are going to a concert next Thursday night, but other than that I'll have every night free. H has been wanting to meet up at the Y every free night, so maybe one night he'll ask and I'll get to be unavailable and mysterious.

Thanks for hanging in with me guys. I know I'm wordy and needy and seem to get stuck, but I really am trying to learn from everyone here and move forward.