I haven't spoken with him about it and didn't find out that he invited himself until last night. I will really leave it up to S16. It is "his" party. If he is fine with it, I will go with the flow.
Ex is going to continue to be self-absorbed until he isn't. He feels entitled to everything. I can't change him but I can keep changing me. Everything doesn't need to be a fight. Skank may end up being a blip on the radar but I will have to deal with him for the rest of our lives. I just am trying to focus on making my life and the kids lives as good as I can.
Gee somedays I actually sound like a grown-up.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory