I would suggest that if you want her, go after her. Don't hold back as long as you can be sure that it won't set you back.
I've been thinking long and hard about this exact thing. What I've done so far has, I think, brought us to a friends stage. I'm thinking maybe I should do some of the things when we first started dating so that she sees the "love" I have for her. Really what do I have to lose at this point, I'm not going to beg or plead or cry, I think, I'm just going to push a little more into the romantic area.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."