Thanks V, I think I am willing to work on the M when I see changes sticking. I actually didn't say that I wouldn't consider Aug, the problem is that he has to give 90 day notice where he lives which means he has to make a decision in the next week.
I think that is the perfect way to go...What would happen if he did have to commit to the place he lives and if you decide in Aug you can work on things because the changes are sticking?
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
