WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 9

[confusedinpa]

There was no additional activity after my last text of "I understand. This is a very hard time for us"

I hurt me a little where she responded Me too sort of, but I guess that is the reality. She's still hurt and is afraid to trust me with her heart again. I know I need to be careful not to move too fast nor pressure her.

I want to call her this morning to see how she is doing, but figure that could be too much pressure.

Last nite she did say that she wanted to do dinner together again at the park before my 3 year old has baseball. We didn't work out the details, but just said that we could talk about it tomorrow.

I want to talk to her about the relationship, but know that action speak louder than words. Problem is that I don't want my actions to put too much pressure on her.

It seems like a pivotal point where too much pressure will push her away vs. not enough from me could cause her to think I haven't changed.

Any insight will be greatly appreciated.

Thanks