Yep, I agree with you all.... The kids would not understand why I would all of a sudden change my principles... and that is a bad sign towards them I feel.

Also, I no longer feel the need to question or accuse the ow. She is not important to me, and I do not want to help ease her conciensce...which is something I feel she is trying to accomplish. I guess I simply have no interest in her whatsoever...and that has been different in the past, when I wanted to get all the answers I thought I was looking for and thought were important...somehow, they no longer are...

Thanks so much guys for your input.

I will politely decline...and let her know the kids will be part of their celebrations.

Last edited by Cinderellaman; 05/20/09 11:19 AM.
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