So that's it. I blew it, I tried too hard to fix it, and she's been driven away.
It's in God's hands now.
I don't know what tone of voice you used when responding to what your W had to say. You said you lost your DB cool, so I wondered if you showed a lot of anger. I am sure you must feel a lot of different emotions right now. What I hope you will not feel is total defeat. That is how you sounded as you ended your post. Saying "it's in God's hands now" should not be like you have no other choice or that you are completely defeated so now He will have to take over. It's never too late for God. I only hope you will come to terms and find peace with Him. I get the feeling that is what you need to work on before you can deal with anything else with the right mental attitude. If you will completely trust Him, you will feel "peace".
I am NOT telling you that you don't need to protect your rights. I agree that you need to do what is necessary legally. However, D is not always the end! You "feel" like it is the end of your life at this moment, but does not have to be the end.
Please spend time in prayer, Bible reading (the book of Psalms), and quiet time with God......seeking peace with Him and the stitch. If you ask Him to help you, I do believe He will give you that peace and emotional stability that will carry you through this ordeal.
Talk to you later, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
