IRMAC my xh said this almost anytime he got mad at me, it sort of started to become comical...the first couple times he said this I was conveinced that he meant it. THEN one time he got mad at me and said "and I'll tell you another thing, now I will never be back, like he had never meant it the last time. After that time I tried to just listen. They will say anything that they think will hurt you. My xh NEVER EVER called me a (word that rhymes with "witch"). In fact, he would try to fight someone if they called me that. One time he got so mad at me he looked at me and finally said it, he knew that would send me over the top. It was like a little child doing something on purpose that they were not supposed to do, right in front of you. Please dont give what he says any thought. They can be very cruel. We dont know if our h, xh, will ever be back, but still most of what they say, they do it to hurt us. I am also sorry that your daughter had to go through that. The first time my son met the new gf, he felt very uncomfortable and came home and hugged me and said he would never leave me. It's really said what the children have to go through no matter how old they are.
