On the note of family, I just recently found out that my own father, while picking up some belongings from last XW asked her what took her so long?!

This is a stab in the back from blood. WTH?

You can never predict others, I'm now friends with X even after restraining order and her stealing from me etc. My relationship with my dad sucks. This is compounded by the fact his cancer has returned and I believe he's given up.

In a nutshell we are frail beings and hurt the one's we love.

Forget his actions the best you can because they will be all over the place. Be the rock and stable one, your D needs this.

Keep the faith in the storm!

cire

Me 48
X's vary
S 27
S 18
Back with high school sweety after 30 years..