She sent me a text shortly afterwards about something tactical. I didn't notice it for about 30 minutes and just replied
Me: OK, thanks for letting me know. Have a goodnite
Her: I will try but its not looking good
Me: Did you want to talk again?
Her: I don't know what to say
Me: I understand. If you can't sleep and want to talk, please don't hesitate
Her: All I can do now is sob... I don't think I can even speak
Me: I'm sorry to hear that. I am here for you if you need me. I really wish I could be there now to give you a hug
Her: Me too sort of
Me: I understand. This is a very hard time for us
And that's were the text "conversation" ended - for now....
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13