The most helpful thing you can do is to read the WA posts. They have helped me to understand the WHY of my situation. Read and post to others.
Keep thinking of the butterfly wings. The more conversations and visits that are calm will only improve upon the softness in her voice.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
