Pull-backs usually follow any glimpses of emotion. I don't agree that it would have been right to mention the C the moment she just opened up to you. That would not have ended well. Maybe next conversation?
Do not bring up her crying or what she said. If there will be more discussion at all, let her bring it up. Validate, validate, validate. If you want to mention the C, plan very carefully how you can do that.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
