WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 9

[confusedinpa]

Wow I really expected 2x4's to be coming out flying. I just didn't know how to handle the call. It really hurt my heart to hear her crying and hurt so badly. I guess I do still love her.

Wifey - thanks for the feedback and encouragement. I see from your sig about your situation that you have been through a lot of drama as well. Hope things are going better for you.

Stuck - that's a good point of mentioning counseling. I did say that if she needed me to watch the kids so she could go to see a therapist/counseling, I would be willing to do that. I didn't really push it as I didn't want to make her think I was putting it all on her now (which in reality I am)

I do agree that she's feeling pressure from the kids. She had actually tried to call me a few times in the afternoon but I didn't answer it. She did finally leave a voice mail asking if I talked to a lawyer about the child support issue. It didn't come up in tonite's call.

Very confusing. I'm not going to be too hopeful on this as she has had such radical swings that I'm sure she will be pulling back after tonite's call....

Thanks for checking in on my thread.