You did fine. There is no one script that is exactly right. You validated her feelings. It isn't necessary to go cold fish and show no emotions of your own.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.