Well, I think the only thing we know for sure is your W needs IC. The cool thing is you know you have gone above & beyond working on your M. I don't think my M could have been saved by IC or MC, but I would have appreciated an H that would have been willing to try.
I don't think you should worry about "it", well at least try not to. Get an MC that specializes in sexual issues and let them worry about it!!! Karen