Tears are good sometimes, and I've found I have an almost unlimited supply. Of course, I find happy things to cry about, too. There isn't a one size fits all formula. All the 2x4's in the world can't mold you into the next successful marriage.
People try to help and I always do better with gentle nudges than outright whacks. It makes me do a turtle when someone is a little too hard on me.
You have to read, digest, understand, but then make your own choices and decisions. You don't know your way just yet, but I promise in time you will.
And, you have all of us nuts along for the ride. I'm a candied almond, how bout you? : )
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
