Learning to Detach

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MY kids always knew it was dad that wanted out of the M
my XH has never said anything verbally to them
he left without a word
the D papers came still no word and nothing in between
my XH has a real issue with confrontation and avoids anything uncomfortable ..he actually acts like a young child who has little skills maybe he was always that way
sO ive had to explain it all to kids
I always did it peacefully explaining Dad is in a crisies(truth) and he still love you ,,just needs space to sort it all out..
If your H is willing to tell girls with honesty that he is leaving because he is confused or unsure about his life and he still loves them and will visit and be there for them
I think that will reieve their fears of abandonment
you can also tell them that you are a stable and committed mom and will be here for them thru this if they need to talk/therapy/whatever
good luck
peace