Text from H today: "I'm dropping off a form you have to sign so I can withdraw retirement."

I emailed L right away - Can he do this? Do I have to sign it?
Yes and no.

I'll fax the form to L tomorrow. H wants to take out $7,000. IF I choose to sign, it's to waive my rights to that amount if something happens to him since I'm still the beneficiary.

He's desperate for money now. Robbing Peter to pay Paul.

Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10