Setting Boundaries for MLC Alien H

[In Limbo]

Didn't get to the bookstore today, but will be there tomorrow to get the book.

I'm giving this a lot of thought and plan to wait until after MC on Thursday when H said he had things he wanted to discuss with MC to help us through. I like the way Grace words it. It's like kicking him out "gracefully." And it is reasonable and makes it clear as to motive and what my stand is.

Went to H7's ballgame tonight and we had an impromptu party afterwards at the coach's house. I had a great time and found I wasn't even thinking about H and what he was or was not doing. That is huge for me. I had one moment of self pity thinking about how all the other dads were there, but it was momentary and then I moved on. Neither S ever asked where their dad was. Sad, so sad what he's throwing away. But they know I'm always here and that's more than a lot of kids have.

No crying for 2 days - yea!

Lost more weight - yea!

Working out 3-4 times/week - yea!

Still need to find a GAL hobby and expand friend network....