Right, plus summer camps will give S15 a break from babysitting, and I'm hoping I can hire one of my theatre friends (she's about 17) and a homeschooler, and really nice, already friends with D9 and she'd really just have to babysit D9. And just be there in case of emergency or whatever. I don't think I could hire her all my hours, but maybe at least a day or 2, so S15 would only have to babysit a day or 2 also.
H emailed me today be sure to have D9 wearing her glasses and something about their phone not being charged. I told him I charged the phone they've been using at my house last night and will charge their phone they use at his house when I have access to it (its with them tonight at Hs). D9 took off her glass again today and I got them and asked her to put on again. She was in the bathroom, and then I was cleaning and helping S15 with his history assignment (for virtual school). I couldn't find the glasses when we had to leave. I just found them when I got home on the computer desk on the top of it, must have put them down when helping S15. I emailed H sorry for not having her glasses on. He made a big thing she doesn't have her glasses when I dropped them off. I just emailed him sorry, and what happened and that I will try not to do so much at once, and have encouraged D9 again today to try to keep them on until she goes to bed. Then I said but she's 9, and imagine if he'd had them at 9.
Honestly, I hate the way I get stressed out before dropping them off and picking them up, like he's my dad, well a dad, my dad was actually a nice, sweet guy. Need to work on that. I feel so happy when it's over with each time! Karen