As I've posted elsewhere, Be a woman only a fool would leave.Think of who and how you were when he fell in love with you and also, think of things you have put off doing b/c you were "tied" down or married and start doing them And come here and read and read and post and if you get good advice, TAKE IT.
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25 is my FAV poster. Her comments are always insightful, and I really encourage you to listen to her advice. She is the first person that told me to 'be a woman only a fool would leave' and I recite that phrase to myself daily.
It's a long process, and patience is the key. Get on your life, take care of your children and yourself, and you will send a strong message to H that you're done sitting around feeling sad. Life goes on, right?