Thats really upset me.. it sounded like last August, when he was gave me the brush off, before dating her. He just sounded awkward and disinterested and sort of detached.. cold? This is NOT how I imagined it would be if we ever got back together. I thought he would be sweet, interested, want to talk, to see me.. (unrealistic I know). I am sick of DBing, why cant I just be honest with him? (nope, not allowed hey).
This is very very hard. I had him in the palm of my hand Friday, now he sounds like a 10 minute phone call is a chore. I guess he is still depressed and he feels inadequate anyway without messing up with friends.
So Cyrena, if you are still reading, did your H give you the cold treatment when he first came back??
Its very hard to reamain confident and chirpy when he is being this confusing. Its making me nervous.
I feel like I need to let him know that he doesnt have to call me if he is tired and thats ok. I dont want him to feel pressurised or that things are moving too fast or as Jody said, he will leave again.
