Thank you for your compliment. I have been doing quite well lately and am even happy on some days. The weather has been super lately and we are on talking terms with my neighbour again. I take it one day at the time with him and will see what happens. I have not decided yet what I will do in my garden but am looking for ideas and getting in some offers.
I will update some other time as I am out and about with my GFs quite often discovering new places to go to. I also did some sunbathing.
Last week I talked to XMIL and had an interesting convo. I have not contacted XH anymore and have not heard from him either (probably he will write now I wrote this - LOL).