Hi there Ali...

Lets get down to practicals...do you have a car? How far way is he? Could you get a taxi back to yours?

IMO you should take this really really really slowly..."Slow Ali catchie Ex!"

How about going for half the evening and then bailing...? Or alternatively, showing up half way?

Ali - don't forget all the massive massive ground you've gained for yourself! Don't give that up!

That's one of the reasons he's thought again!

Best s x