Partner left after 9 yrs - he has come back?

[kat727]

Now don't throw stuff at me but I think you should go. Don't drink at all or maybe only one. Keep it light and fun and then come back home. Let's think about it: If this was someone new, you wouldn't be spending the night right away and this is and has to be looked as a new R. You want it better than last time right? Otherwise you could end up right back in the mess you have been working so hard to get out of.

Be patient dear Ali. He wants you too. Let's not rush.

hugs, kat