Focus on yourself. You can't change his mind and especially if he's in MLC, he will strongly disagree that it's MLC and not listen to anything you tell him. Yeah they're weird that way.
Anyway, he's still at home, so make the best of it. Focus on developing YOUR life. Maybe jot down the specific things he told you he enjoyed about Canada and see if there's a way of re-creating them with you. Start re-developing your "sexy" look. All of these will help you to re-build your self-esteem. All of us LBS's have self-esteems that were battered by our WASs. You need to bring back that confidence and strength within yourself.
As you've noticed, he doesn't want to do anything for the M, so don't force him. He'll just turn around and blame you for driving him away. So let him free and see what happens.
You'll be fine as long as you focus on yourself and have patience...patience...patience.
God bless.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
