Jody felt I either shouldnt go at all, or shouldnt stay. But,
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in all honesty Ali ask yourself could you go and not drink and return to your home at the end of the evening. I am assuming the Not going isn't an option you are considering. You have to remember this is going to be a new relationship so maybe all the "buts" can be put in the past at least for now. Some great professional advice take it slow build a friendship not overwhelm him we arent ready for romance even, not do too much on his terms make him work for me a little..
Are you on track with college work, can you really afford half a week end off at this stage. You know best so good luck.
