I couldn't even imagine you being petty. Just let him know that what you just said: that you can get her to the camp and back everyday if she goes to the one in town but if he is insisting on this other one, he will need to cover at least 50% of the driving.
As for the job, you were working 4 hours a day 5 days a week on the ad job so why is he going balistic now? He just wants to make your life difficult because his must not be going so well. He wants to share the misery.
That's kind of what I was going to email him, I see myself as trying to be fair, and he will see it as blackmail which is how he kind of does things.
He emailed me the day I got the job asking if it was temp (like the last one) or permanent? I said permanent I hope, and then he asked what I'd be doing about the kids? I emailed back same as we've been doing, letting S15 babysit her! He does that too! But he says it's diff. in his sitch b/c he lives in an apt. complex vs. the country and he is close by when he's at work(true, I do have a 40 minute commute). Karen
