Puppy - the attraction switch could possibly be turned off, that is true.
However, it is also true that this switch can turn back on in an instant under the right conditions. And it can last, too...you just both need that deep work and therapy to recapture it.
If she's willing to do the work, it can all come back and more and more and more...try to have faith that its possible and try to envision her being healed from her stuff, and you both being new and loving toward each other...it CAN happen! Picture your fantasy of a happy marriage and sex life with her. What can it hurt?
