fb2, I dont think "it is all rosy if I divorce H". I've said it before, divorced women with kids in Greece are a taboo so I am looking at a very lonely life ahead, my dream of growing old with someone won't look very probable. Also, financialy even, I found out today he is making almost 4 times what I make which means "settling" would be good for my stress levels and for someone (smarter I guess) could be a good motive. I am not that smart
I didnt say "now". I said soon, like yestreday but didnt put a knife at his neck. I know he is slow, I cant wait for another...hour , LOL!! no I mean I can wait for a few weeks if I know this is it...
Rob, I tried to use the "I" statement. Only time I used You was when he said something stupid about "constantly compromising" and I asked him for an example and he went back to prebomb era and still couldnt find one. That's when I said "I am shocked you dont realise how self absorved you've been all along and how much I have respected your timing, stop being so selfish and try for once to understand when I am saying I had enough". I think he got it
imlost, I didnt get offended by your suggestion. I have thought of that also, I just cant get myself to date people just to date people, even if it is strictly platonic. Attention here? Hmmm, I thik you did get that wrong. If you mean, a fairytale, then you are right, but not here, NYC...
Bbj, I have read about that also. I think it actually worked in the past with H. But for him to see other people noticing me, we would have to go out together... K
