I remember your sitch from way back and can understand your feelings and apprehension.
You mention when he's gone you feel at ease more. Is this because you really would rather have him gone? Are you floundering through this for the kids sake?
I guess what I'm asking is he treated you so very badly were you able to forgive and give yourself the time needed for healing before he came back?
Is Lisa making herself happy? If not you could start with DBing that.
By the way how are the kids doing with all of this?
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Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
