Now he will make a decision and you will finally have a direction.

No wonder it feels good to you...you finally are on track to have a clear idea of what is going on and where you are going.

Good job on the the talk - the only thing I'd say is to make sure your comments are "I statements" instead of "you statements" so he doesn't get defensive. You may have done that w/him, but if not, try to say "I think..." instead of "you did..." and he may respond better. Again, just thoughts.

Overall, I'm proud of the step you took today and the fact you were calm, in control and an advocate for yourself and your needs.

Now the waiting until his "decision" comes down. Let's hope he's man enough to see what he'd be throwing away.

RTL


M:38; D: 6
Divorce Final: 10/6/08