Thanks - you are tough, but I have a much better understanding of why, now.
After reading more of the threads from you and Gucci, what are your thought about bringing in the OM's W into this? They are in the process of thinking of a divorce - they were seperated once, but he has since moved back in with her as he is unemployed. She is a good friend of my W - my W has been advising her on her own PA with another friend of ours. Yes it's a soap opera. Both parties have indicated that their M is over - just neither of them want to take the D intitiative.
